It's been five years. If you're that hyper sensitive to the finale to Xena, it is time to seek professional help to help you sort through your problems. This is nothing to do with being insensitive, it has to do with reality.
You're upset over a TV show. I despised "Soul Possesion", but you don't see me going "OH MY GOD, NOT THAT!"
Get a grip. To quote Lucy herself, "Cut the cord!"